Mrs. Olsen, I Presume?

If there's some lovin' on the offspring, reminiscing on the childhood, and growin' into some country air...then just presume, it's Mrs. Olsen.

Wednesday, April 22, 2009

Happy Earth Day

The first time I became aware of Earth Day, was when there was a massive televised event in Washington D.C. with the Indigo Girls and various celebrities. Between live telecasts with acoustic folksy bands were celebrities sharing earth-loving tips. The only quote I remember from that event was when Chevy Chase said: "Save water, shower with a friend!" My young girl heart was shocked and was never the same again.


A couple years later I learned that this Earth Day crowd in D.C. left piles and piles and piles of trash all over the park they were enjoying. Go figure.


So in honor of our good earth, maybe you just do one little thing help our air, water, or power grid. Here's some ideas for you.
Get your reusable grocery bags TODAY : plant a tree...or your garden : Shower with a spouse ;) buy reusable sandwich sacks for lunch duty : Wind! Turn OFF computer :

goodbye.

Labels: enviro tips

Tuesday, April 21, 2009

Testimony Tuesday: Patty

Today marks 3rd in the series of guest writers who are god-fearin' and people-lovin' folks. This project wouldn't be complete without the insight from a woman who is out of the thick of "it"(I'm talking little ankle-biters shadowing every move) and is now (hopefully) enjoying an empty nest. She is also my personal hero.

There's so many reasons why Patty is a female stud. A) She's an Idaho girl who grew up skiing at majestic Grand Targhee B) She kept up skiing and rockin' the slopes even after 4 kids C) She has patience like a river. I'm not kidding about that. D) She was my Young Womens teacher growing up but still allowed me to be equally yoked as a kindred spirit.


Here she is showing off her beautiful offspring.  Over to you Patty:

As for me, in my home, I tried to recognize when the kids “felt” something good.  I would tell them that was the Holy Ghost, and how blessed they were to be able to feel that.  I would write the things down that they shared with me.  My youngest son is on a mission in Brazil.  When he was 5 he told me about a special experience when the “talking ghost” talked to him.  (It took me a few minutes to realize he wasn’t talking about Casper). When he was 12 and his father died, he told me another experience that happened to him during the funeral.  I wrote these things down, but, better than that, one of his church leaders had the kids in the class write down “pocket testimonies” during one of their lessons.  My son wrote about this last experience, folded the small piece of paper up about the size of a dime, and shoved it in his pants pocket.  I found it, saved it, and included it with information I sent with my son on his mission.  He remarked when he found it how it brought back something he had forgotten.  It came at a time that he needed encouragement.

I once heard a saying that I use when confronted with the questions.  We aren’t members of the church because of what we know, but because of what we feel. 

Another piece of advice I remember is, that as a parent, we need to set up, or make sure there are situations where the Lord can be present in our home. 

There is an email being circulated that is very interesting.  It is an LDS young women from Blackfoot, Idaho attending Harvard University.  She is on a religious panel discussion, and she answers some of the touchy questions very well.   It takes about 20 minutes to listen to, but she does a great job.

[An embedded video from another website was here; it is no longer available.]


Day of Faith: Personal Quests for a Purpose - 3. Rachel Esplin from Harvard Hillel on Vimeo.

[Another] great resource for inspiration is my friend *John.  He is a university professor, and happens to be the only LDS instructor in his department.  I have had two family members leave the gospel as they became highly educated.  They are too smart to believe now and can talk through most of our doctrine.  John is well educated in all history, church history included.  He had his own challenges in dealing with history, his colleagues, and his testimony.  I asked him to tell me how he balanced his intellect and the gospel.  I will give you both of his responses to me.  He is eloquent and right on the money. 

Mrs. Olsen here: I will be posting John's contribution later this week.  For now, we'll leave you some time to watch the embedded video if you have not already seen it.   Patty and I were both proud Idahoans when we watched it.  Thanks Patty!

Labels: Why I Believe Series

Monday, April 20, 2009

Idaho Republicans Dirty Little Secret

As a born and bred spud girl, it is with great trepidation I divulge the back woods country secrets I discovered in my recent travels to Idaho.











Wait...how can a dirty secret be clean? The truth is, Mrs. Olsen knows and loves many an Idaho Republican. She just might be one for all you know! I was just making a joke because I don't understand how innovative and clean technologies that provide power have become a political issue. Hmmmmm....anyway.

If anything, it provided my linguistically challenged Vanilla Wafer with a new word for the day!







I'm glad to see that constant Idaho wind put to good use. As an insider tip: in my backroads drive I passed a little office building amidst the turbines called Invenergy. So while we're all losing our retirement in the markets, and getting flack for dirtying up the planet, this company just might be one to keep your eye on.

And if you live in California, Washington, Oregon, Utah, Idaho, or Wyoming you can register all or a portion of your power needs to come from clean renewable sources, like wind, at the link here.


Labels: enviro tips

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Testimony Tuesday: Kelly B.

Today is our second in the "Why I Believe" Series dedicated to humans, sent to Planet Earth from a loving Heavenly Father, trying to retain their true identity amidst Earth-like chaos abounding on the nightly news.

My guest today is Kelly. When Kelly was in college, she drove a restored classic car that was baby blue. I remember because I was a missionary, biking and walking in my 3 mile radius in Gainesville Florida and couldn't go anywhere else. That was okay, but my spontaneous nature was constantly grumbling to drive, find an alligator, climb a palm tree, and discover the Florida beaches outside my confined mission boundaries. When my mission companion and I needed to get a ride to Jacksonville for mission business, we hitched a ride in a baby blue 1960-something car that allowed me to reminisce my former life of road-tripping wind-in-my-hair happiness as our new friend, and newest convert to the Church, Kelly taxied us past roadside jungles and swamps.

There's no doubt Kelly was the cool girl in college. She was funny and had all the boys drooling over her natural curls, and her baby-blue wheels.

When you grow up in a church, and all your neighbors believe the same as you, there's the risk you will take some of this stuff for granted. I think anybody who leaves "Zion" to be a missionary amidst a new culture, language, or religious majority will rightly be amazed at the religious vigor, faith-in-action miracles, and major life changes that you witness when someone is a new convert. Such was the gift that Kelly gave to me.



Let's check up and see how Kelly's been doing since she made "the switch".
Over to you Kelly.  By the way, sweet eighties threads.  Gag me with a spoon you look rad!



I am fortunate in a way to be a convert, because I 'got' to experience life out there without the benefit of the Gospel, and was able have the contrast without rebelling.

I remember very clearly what I was like back then: smart, beautiful, witty...and unhappy. Okay- the rest may be an exagerration, but I was very unhappy. I had gone through a very hard few years- my three remaining grandparents died in a few short years- after long and just depressing illnesses. My parents had gotten divorced, and remarried, and it took me a long time to adjust to that. I was left with some very deep insecurities, and abandoned my faith during that time.

It's not that I ever doubted that God loved me, because I believed in the power of love, and that 'it' existed even after death....but I did not understand how a loving God could condemn people who had never heard of Him (ie- China, people in past ages with no chance to glimpse a Bible even.) So, I kept the idea of Love, and said so long to God. What did I need some old man for?

I ran off to school, and met a boy- I mean boy- he was only 17! What a baby! And he would make me so flustered. He seemed so sure that God was real, that our spirits were male and female even before we were born, and would be after we died- where was he getting this stuff from? I loved him, but we didn't talk much about God. I was a little busy.

So, I went Home for the summer, and My mom insisted that I meet with missionaries, because she liked this boy, and wanted us to agree on things spiritual, if we were so serious...and for me to take him out of the mormon church. I sat through the lessons, and kindof prayed, but not expecting anything. Mostly I was trying to get my mom off my back, I guess.

After the summer was over, I went back to college, and started meeting with the missionaries there, this time for me. We started over- which I didn't like, but fine. If we have to... I began to seriously read, and to wonder- could it be true? After nine months, I got my answer. I was walking home from class, not even praying, and I just knew. It was like taking off sunglasses- I hadn't even realized everything was so dim. I am not kidding, the sun has been brighter ever since.

I had to call my mom and tell her what I was going to do, and it was one of the scariest things I have ever done. Worse than getting married, having kids- any of that. She was very upset, and boycotted my baptism, but I knew I was doing the right thing.

Joining the church has given me hope- hope that families can be together forever, that my own kids won't have to go through the divorce that I was subjected to. That I could be a good mom, and love my kids, and treat them with kindness. That I could be in control of my temper. The Temple is the foundation of our family.

Have there been times that I have questioned if this is the true church? Yes. I don't believe that our faith is stagnant, and when we try to broaden our testimonies, sometimes we have to step out into the dark. But, it doesn't feel like the dark anymore, because I already have such a trove of blessings. It seems ungrateful to me to say "tell me now, or I'm out of here!" when I consider all of the goodness the church has introduced me to.

I could never go back to another church. I have been there, and was not fed. It is a choice for me of either this is the true church, or there is no god. I know that there is a God. I know that He loves me and my family. I know that he can call prophets whenever and wherever he chooses, and that His ways are not My ways. I know that He answers prayers, and I know that Jesus is my Savior. I have felt the sorrow of sin, and could not remove it myself. I love the Savior for saving me, and I know he loves me too. I have felt the gentle assurance in times of sadness that He is with me, and the proddings of the Spirit to improve, to continue, to hang on...

When our son broke his leg severely at age two (actually a week before his birthday), my husband and I learned a little of the Savior's love for us. I had never been in a position where I felt so strongly to take another's pain, but I would have done it then. My heart was drawn out to him, and I loved him so much...I felt so humbled to realize the great love Jesus Christ has for all of us. He would bear our afflictions because of His love...and he will if we ask him.

When it comes down to it, Faith is a choice. We decide to try the Lord, to test Him at his word, or we don't. We decide to hang in there until we are answered, or we give up. It is up to us what we do. The timing of His answers and blessings are up to Him, but His love is constant. I'm trying to be constant, too.

Labels: Why I Believe Series

Monday, April 13, 2009

Walking the Fine Line with Easter Fun

This Easter Weekend we made Resurrection Rolls with the kids.   With young and curious kids, I find myself walking a fine line between creative visual lesson about the resurrection and a morbid presentation on cannibalism.  I have faith in all faithful parents that they can walk the line and keep it as an awesome (and reverent) tradition for your kids.  If you are fretting that this recipe comes a day late, no worries there's always Family Home Evening to catch up on.  Here's a peek into our Easter Fun.























Read from accompanying scripture, such as John 19:38-42 and John 20.

VARIATION: If you want to represent the quiet awakening of the resurrection (and build more excitement and tension for your kids) then start your recipe in the evening:
PREHEAT OVEN TO 450 degrees
PREPARE ROLLS AND PLACE IN OVEN
IMMEDIATELY TURN OFF OVEN

In the morning they will be cooked and ready to go with your Easter Brunch.


Labels: Buddha Baby, Rainbow Girl, recipe, Vanilla Wafer

Tuesday, April 7, 2009

Testimony Tuesday: Lisa S.

A while back I had fun cutting my son's hair, and hypothesized what kind of human he would end up. That was a silly afternoon, though in some ways it confronted some legitimate questions that all parents must have: Will my kid be a weasel? Will they be punks? How 'bout grateful? Will they be cunning in their career? Hardworking? Happy?

The other side of this coin, and the true desire of my heart is this:
Will my kids know and love their Savior? Will they be able to feel and recognize The Spirit? Will they still believe?

After meeting up with an old friend and fellow parent, I saw a little heartache over their kid who had grown up and refused the faith of their childhood. They seemed to ask: How did I raise up my family and be so involved in our religion, with my own faith unshaken...well, why did my kid reject all of this stuff that I considered a true gift? (And remember, the tone of this parent did not have diminished love for their kid, but they really wanted to know!)

So as a mom to a fresh crop of offspring, I was left wondering: What will cause the gospel to become an anchor to someone? How does one retain their faith when life gets hard, or worse, complicated? How does one retain the light of Christ amidst the busy going-ons of life and love?

So in honor or April, and it's own Easter Celebration of The Resurrected Savior, I posed some of these questions to some folks I've met along the way, and wanted to hear what they had to say. I hope you want to hear it too. For now, we'll call them Testimony Tuesdays. So I hereby present our first guest, Lisa.


She is amazed at the sheer size of God's Bounty (i.e. these yams). Frankly, so am I. Let's hear how her testimony grows. Over to you Lisa:

As a child, I was taught very specifically, and very carefully, to know and believe the scriptures. My parents were not perfect, but they held family prayer and scripture study, Family Home Evening, and we attended church regularly. Belief came easily for me. I never wondered, never doubted, and I tried my best to keep Christ's commandments, knowing fully that if I disobeyed, the consequences listed in the scriptures would be mine.

When I became a teenager, however, my testimony became solidified as my own, not just the regurgitation of what I had been taught. I was in a remote town in an extremely remote state, where I was one of three LDS students in my graduating class. Every day my faith was put on trial. Every day I was asked about my belief. I had wonderful friends who knew what my standards and beliefs were, and respected me for it; but they were always watching how I would handle every day situations. I had to make sure my faith was founded on a deep rooted, unshakable foundation, one that could not be swayed or tempted into submission. And the closer I became to my Savior, the happier I was.

Now, as a parent, I have found the time when I rely on that early, strong, foundation more than ever. I am sleep deprived, lonely, and often times, depressed. I need Jesus Christ and the peace the gospel brings, and I need it bad. I read my scriptures daily and am working hard to have weekly family home evenings and family prayer every day. These things keep my anchor strong, as the corrosion of the daily grind wears away at my heart. It is taking more work now to stay strong than it ever has for me, but I know the work is worth it. There are glorious, shining moments, when my heart is calmed, when the flood of the spirit washes over me, and I am given the deepest peace and comfort; more than any other source on Earth. There are the nights when, after a particularly taxing day, I fall to my knees in anguished cries, praying for help. And help has come. My children are another beautiful source of strength for me, even in their infancy. I look into these spirits, and know that they come from a very kind, very merciful, and very generous Father in Heaven.

I watch every day for the tender mercies of God, and know that they are real. I marvel at His grace and condescension, and am reminded often of the love and happiness I feel because of my relationship with the Savior. I follow Him because it makes me happy, because my life is simpler and more complete when wrapped in the arms of His Love. I know his promises are real, and as we draw closer to him, the windows of heaven pour out blessings that there will not be room for us to receive.

Labels: Why I Believe Series

Friday, April 3, 2009

Wiggles and Words from a prophet

Tis the time of year when we get 8 hours of religion via satellite, cable, or radio (10 hours if you're a male and over 12 years of age). There's something so refreshing about the thought of a living prophet building upon the testimonies of ancient prophets. It's a time-tested pattern still thriving in the latter days. And there's something like imitating a circus act when you have little restless offspring vying for your attention for 8 hours of the LDS General Conference. So here's some last-minute help for moms with littles for this spring weekend...

Bingo Cards plus M&M's for illiterate littles. Bribery is an eternally effective tool of motherhood. Thank you SuperMormon Rachel Wood for 12 different bingo cards found here.

For literate offspring, try a little folded notebook with pictures of the apostles where they can write notes (or draw pictures) from the talks. Notebook found here.

Here's a printout from the Friend Magazine. Other great resources from The Friend are here.


Speaking of offspring, my beanstalk of a sister is delivering the latest in extended relatives today.